Let's define our terminology so that we are discussing the same thing when we use particular words:
Normal: how things typically are in any given situation. This sense of normal can be good or bad.
Synonym: Typical. Ordinary. Usual. What is expected based on past experience.
Normalized: the state of being complete, whole, reaching one's potential, utterly fulfilled. This sense of "normal" is a beautiful and wonderful experience!
Synonym: Peaceful. Fulfilled.
Normalization: the process of becoming normalized.
Normalization is the single most important result of our work.
(The Absorbent Mind, p. 204)